Friday, March 30, 2012

Real (Marriage) Talk with KeKe & Chubb Rock... SEX Does Get Better After Marriage Pt.2








Hip hop legend Chubb Rock & his beautiful multi-talented wife KeKe, share with NSPW followers what it takes to make marriage work. This week the couple confesses that SEX is their only competition.

Enjoy! 





Ladies Your Man Is Closer Than You Think!



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Wednesday, March 28, 2012

I Need Him Like I Need Shelter....

  




Sweet Sultry Words
Subtle Touches
Flirtatious Whispers
His Hand On The Small Of My Back
Strong Arms Wrapped Around Me
His Scent
Longing To Look Into His Eyes
A Simultaneous Smile 
Intense Intimacy
An Impassioned Embrace

My desire for him (my husband) is no longer a want, instead it has become a need. I need him like I need shelter.

And just like I look to the Creator to fulfill all my other needs, I look to him to fulfill this one as well.



Dolls your man is closer than you think...



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Friday, March 23, 2012

Real (Marriage) Talk with Comedian Royale Watkins Pt. 2







In this segment of Real (Marriage) Talk Comedian, Actor, & Writer Royale Watkins talks love, marriage, and how to make it work. This week he shares what it takes to remain faithful.

Enjoy!  









Ladies Your Man Is Closer Than You Think!


 
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Monday, March 19, 2012

What Makes Men Want to Settle Down....







I recently asked the men of my Not-so-Patiently Waiting Facebook Page....Guys, what is it about a woman that makes you want to be with JUST her and no one else? What qualities or characteristics does that woman possess?
I loved their answers...


 A little tenderness, check the super hero cape at the door sometimes!
Intelligence, class, MATURITY, secure in herself, ability to submit to me as her man and leader of household, ability to check me, ability to make me better, character, a true lady.


A strong sense of self, her intellect, humility, kindness. Her spirit, ambition and determination, positive vibe. If I can learn to appreciate new things because of her, if she can motivate me to be a better person, a better man, then yeah I just want her and her influence in my life and heart.
  

There were some great qualities mentioned already. In addition to those, I need a great sense of humor, a mix of intelligence and a little hood, can cook her tail off,open-minded, into watching or playing sports, AND can play some spades woooooo......wedding bells jingling baby!!!!


I'd like to find myself with a woman who has tenderness reserved just for me. She doesn't do for anyone else what she does for me.


Proverbs 31




 Sweeties Your Man is Closer Thank You Think!
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Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Men answer the question...Why are so many women single?


I recently asked the men of my Not-so-Patiently Waiting Facebook page..."From your experience, why do you think so many women are single?" The answers were......
I'll let you be the judge :-)



Plenty of men out here,  they gotta learn how to move on. 
Women use up all their positive energy on clown.com then they're too tired for the real thing, lol!!


My primary answer is because many women choose to be single.
Sometimes rightfully, sometimes due to a victim complex and sometimes just because they realize they're better off. Sometimes they just can't keep a man because of their mouths and demeanor. And yes, many are discouraged because they've been burned so bad by men.


I think this question can be explained like this. Men as a species are logical, women as a species are emotional. Men are visual, women are sensorial. Men like things to be explained, women expect things to be known. I don't think race has anything to play in it, it is a more primal level. Men and women think, act, talk, love, feel differently yet we both expect the opposite sex to be, think, and act as we would.That is why women and men who are alone are alone. It takes patience, communication, genuine love of yourself, selflessness, ego dropping by both man and woman to be in a happy committed relationship. Above all STRENGTH because there are days that no matter what u just won't get the opposite sex because you are not the opposite sex. Don't over analyze, under communicate, not LISTEN(that means no advice) then expect to be in a happy relationship.


..its also on the other hand woman that give too much ..are too timid, the lack of fire ...some give up on appearance at a early age ...some want what they don't have themselves ..which kills me

  
Unrealistic expectations, poor attitude, baggage, unkempt in appearance and body, guarded, jaded, did i say poor attitude?


I can do this with my eyes closed... Want too much out of a relationship... I am not your Lord and savior Jesus Christ... we are in this thing TOGETHER... ATTITUDES!! Men who are level headed and have something going for themselves want nothing to do with a stank ass attitude towards the world... Talk too damn much... Over analyze every damn thing... Self centered thinking the world revolves around them... Too bossy, I can't speak for all men but I don't want a second Mother...and this is my last one because I can go all day... Women who have daddy issues think that every man owes them something and lives their life hating men but always want a man in their life because their father wasn't there for them... I don't wanna be your damn father... You need to resolve whatever issues you have with him ....  

 
Selfishness and lack of submission.

 
So many women are single because women stab each other in the back for men who don't have honor, morals or compassion. Men don't have to step their game up because we know whatever bullshit one won't put up with there is a single woman out there saying"shit if she don't want him I will take him" hence the dilemma.




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Hunnie Bunnies Your Man is Closer Thank You Think!


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Friday, March 9, 2012

Real (Marriage) Talk with Comedian Royale Watkins

 





In this segment of RMT Comedian, Actor, & Writer Royale Watkins talks love, marriage, and how to make it work. This week he very candidly shares how he met his wife and how he knew she was the one.

Enjoy!









Ladies Your Man Is Closer Than You Think!


 
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Tuesday, March 6, 2012

What Men Want.... The Interview!





This week it's all about the men... I'm questioning how they view love/relationships and what they're looking for in a woman.

First up is my friend King G... a 33 year old single Black man. I asked and he answered. I hope his answers provide you with a better understanding of how men think.

Enjoy!


1) What would you say is the difference between how you think about love/relationships now as opposed to say 10 or even 5 years ago?

I will go with 10 yrs because 5 yrs ago isn't much different. 10 yrs ago I still like felt like relationships were fair and people wanted someone they can share a fair relationship with. Now it feels like relationships are sometimes selfish in that people want someone that fits only a rigid formula of what the media, friends/family says is good. Instead of figuring out what they want. I’m worried that I won’t find someone I can be myself with and I wasn’t worried about that before. I want the female to be herself as well. I also think the toughest thing I see in relationships now is that no one wants to accept peoples bad with their good.

 
2) At this point in your life what are you looking for when it comes to a relationship?  

I can say I'm looking for someone that's patient with me because my life is so up in the air right now,  but a lot of the things I want haven’t changed. A sexual person with an anytime anyplace mentality. Can cook. Open to new things and experiences.  Don’t try to lock me into a box mentally… meaning if I like certain things this week it doesn’t mean I can’t like something else next week. I'm not wishy washy but I don’t like the feeling that I can’t try new things because the person I'm with thinks I shouldn't. I'm a free spirited libertarian. The list is long but at the end of the day I want someone who is a good person at the core and respects individuality even in a partnership. 


3) Can men be faithful to one woman? Out of all your male friends in relationships how many are actually faithful to their women? Do you think you would have a particularly difficult time being faithful?

Yeah men can be faithful, like some men can go to the moon but it takes effort. For some men it doesn't take much effort while for others it takes a lot. I also feel “faithful” is a loaded word. I assume you like most people mean not being with anyone sexually outside their relationship but for some flirting is cheating. I know some of my friends that seem to behave or speak like they are not "faithful" but I know some guys just talk shit to sound like they are not scared of their women in that sense. But I've never been around any of my friends and saw them cheating. So for me to say they are or aren’t wouldn't be fair. Theirs others that seem not to be but again I wouldn't know if they don’t want anyone to know. I base most of it on personality types. For me I know that I would have to stay out of situations that might tempt me. I went through a time when I felt like anything went, like if a situation comes up I would go with it. That’s because people close to me passed away & I felt like I needed to enjoy life and be more spontaneous because it could be over at any time. But I know that's not something I would do now, especially in my marriage. At this point in life it isn't very difficult because I'm not a guy that chases women but I know that if I'm drinking & I’m put in that type of situation I will be tempted because I'm human.




P.S. Ladies, let me know if there are any other questions you want addressed in the near future...



Special Thanks to King G :-)


Dolls Your Man Is Closer Than You Think!

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Friday, March 2, 2012

Real (Marriage) Talk with KeKe & Chubb Rock *Ep.7* SEX Does Get Better After Marriage!

 
 
 
 
Hip hop legend Chubb Rock & his beautiful multi-talented wife KeKe, share with Not-so-Patiently Waiting... followers what it takes to make marriage work. This week they insist that SEX does get better after marriage.

Enjoy! 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Ladies Your Man Is Closer Than You Think!


 
 
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